@Crazy4horses Tone of voice is hard in text and even harder when you're not writing in your first language. I did not intend anything offensive with my comment.
I do however think my assumption that this is not cyberstalking was pretty correct if your issue is that people have "turned this into a competition". Stalking is a serious crime that should be reported to the police and puts the person at risk of being murdered since that's a pretty common outcome of a stalking-case. Looking up somebody else's stats and using them as motivation for improving your own stats is not stalking, not even if you say "I saw you had X but I have more". It might be an asshole move depending on the circumstances, but it's not stalking.